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Madelyn Shane, M.S.Ed.

Parent Educator & Connected Family Coach

I hold a Master of Science in Education in Early Childhood Education and spent five years working as an early childhood educator, where I had the privilege of working closely with young children and their families.

People often ask why I chose to work with young children, and the answer has always been the same: I truly believe the earliest years of life matter the most.

Long before children learn to read, write, or solve math problems, they are learning something even more meaningful. They are learning whether the world feels safe, how to build relationships, how to express their emotions, how to communicate their needs, and how to understand themselves. Those first experiences become the foundation they carry with them throughout their lives.

As an early childhood educator, I had the privilege of witnessing those moments every day. I watched children flourish when they felt seen, understood, and emotionally safe.

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I also built close relationships with families and saw something that has stayed with me ever since: every parent wants to do what’s best for their child. Even during the hardest moments, parents are doing the best they can with the knowledge, support, and resources they have.

That realization changed the direction of my work.

As I continued my education and earned my Master of Science in Education in Early Childhood Education, my research continually led me back to one central belief: social-emotional development is the foundation for lifelong learning, healthy relationships, and overall well-being.

Before children can confidently explore the world around them, they first need to feel safe, connected, and supported. The way children learn to identify emotions, regulate their feelings, communicate their needs, and build relationships during the first five years lays the groundwork for so much of what comes next.

What inspires me most is helping parents understand that development.

When we begin to see behavior as communication instead of simply something to correct, everything starts to change. A tantrum may be a child communicating overwhelm. Clinginess may reflect a need for

reassurance. Difficulty with a transition may tell us that a child needs additional preparation, predictability, or support. Big emotions can become opportunities to teach and practice developing skills rather than moments parents need to fear or immediately fix.

Understanding what may be happening beneath behavior allows parents to respond with greater confidence, empathy, and connection.

I have seen firsthand how that understanding can transform families. Parents often feel less overwhelmed when they realize many of the behaviors worrying or frustrating them are also a normal part of healthy development. Children can feel more secure because they are met with guidance rather than shame.

Over time, communication can strengthen, relationships can deepen, and home can become a place where everyone feels more understood and connected.

My professional journey has continued beyond the classroom through certification as a Bringing Baby Home® Educator through The Gottman Institute, training in Conscious Discipline®, and ongoing education in mind-body somatic coaching through The Embody Lab.

Each of these experiences has reinforced what I have always believed:

Children thrive when the adults in their lives feel supported, too.

Parenthood is one of life’s greatest transformations. It brings extraordinary joy, deep love, continual change, and countless questions. Every stage—from pregnancy through the preschool years—offers new opportunities for parents to grow alongside their child.

Parents also bring their own histories, emotions, expectations, relationships, strengths, stressors, and experiences into parenting.

Sometimes what a parent needs most isn’t another rule or parenting strategy. Sometimes it is having someone help slow the moment down, understand what is happening, and determine what their child—and perhaps the parent themselves—needs next.

I don’t believe there is one perfect way to parent.

Every child is unique. Every family has its own story. Every parent brings different strengths, values, experiences, and hopes to the journey.

My role is not to provide all the answers or give families a formula to follow. It is to walk alongside parents with compassion, evidence-based education, developmental understanding, and practical tools that help parenting feel less overwhelming and more connected. Whether you are preparing to welcome your first baby, navigating toddler emotions, establishing healthy routines, trying to understand a challenging behavior, or preparing your child for school, my goal is to help you feel informed, supported, and more confident in your own parenting. Together, we can strengthen your confidence while building the kinds of family relationships that continue to grow for years to come.

Treatment Approach

I believe parenting isn’t about becoming perfect.

It’s about becoming more connected.

Children thrive when they feel safe, understood, and deeply connected to the adults who care for them.

My coaching combines current research in child development with practical strategies families can begin using in everyday life. Rather than focusing only on stopping or correcting behavior, we become curious about what may be happening underneath it.

Understanding behavior does not mean removing boundaries or expectations. Children need limits, guidance, predictability, and structure.

Connected parenting recognizes that connection and boundaries can exist together.

We can acknowledge a feeling and hold a limit. We can understand what behavior may be communicating while teaching a child another way to express what they need. We can remain connected while helping children learn.

Every child is different and every family is different. Our work together is personalized to your family’s values, goals, strengths, circumstances, and the unique child in front of you.

The goal is not perfect parenting or perfect behavior. The goal is greater understanding, confidence, connection, and a relationship in which both parent and child have room to learn, repair, and grow.

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Areas of Focus

I work with families from pregnancy through age five, providing support around:

You Don’t Have to Navigate Parenthood Alone

Every family deserves encouragement, practical tools, and compassionate support.

My hope is that every parent I work with leaves feeling more confident, more connected to their child, and better equipped to enjoy the incredible journey of raising a family.

Parenting does not require perfection. It asks us to remain curious, continue learning, repair when needed, and keep growing alongside our children.

When parents understand their child’s development and feel supported in their own growth, children have more room to flourish.

The connection built in those everyday moments can become part of what a family carries forward for generations.

- Madelyn Shane
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